How Planning Helped Me Cope During Fertility Treatment
Fertility & TTC Agnes Berta Fertility & TTC Agnes Berta

How Planning Helped Me Cope During Fertility Treatment

4-minute read

Quick Read

When I started fertility treatment, I thought the clinic would tell me everything I needed to do. Instead, I realised that while the clinic was there to guide my treatment, I also needed to take ownership of the many lifestyle choices surrounding it.

As I began planning my nutrition, sleep, exercise, appointments and daily routines, something unexpected happened. I didn't become more anxious trying to "do everything"—I became calmer because I finally felt I was doing everything that was reasonably within my power.

Years later, I discovered that psychologists have long recognised something similar. When we focus on meaningful actions we can control during uncertain situations, we may cope better emotionally.

This article is the story behind What I Can Control—the planner I created from my own fertility journey, in the hope that it might help someone else too.

Key Takeaways

  • Trying to conceive often creates uncertainty, making it easy to constantly wonder whether you are doing enough.

  • Creating a realistic plan helped me replace constant overthinking with purposeful action.

  • Feeling that you are doing everything reasonably within your power can reduce the mental burden of uncertainty.

  • Research suggests that perceived control and self-efficacy are associated with better psychological adjustment during fertility treatment.

  • What I Can Control grew directly from the planning system that helped me navigate my own fertility journey.

  • You can download your free copy of What I Can Control using the link later in this article.

This article shares my personal experience alongside research and is intended for educational purposes. It should not replace personalised medical advice.

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Can Exercise Really “Balance” Hormones? What Research Really Says

Can Exercise Really “Balance” Hormones? What Research Really Says

6-minute read

Summary

Yes, exercise can affect hormones—but it does not simply “balance” them. Regular movement can support insulin sensitivity, metabolic health, stress regulation and the conditions needed for ovulation. However, exercise cannot reliably raise progesterone or lower oestrogen, and too much exercise without sufficient food and recovery can disrupt menstrual cycles.

Key takeaways

  • Insulin matters to ovarian function—not only diabetes.

  • An active and a sedentary lifestyle are not hormonally equivalent.

  • Exercise can indirectly support oestrogen and progesterone regulation, but it cannot precisely control their levels.

  • More exercise is not always better: under-fuelling and inadequate recovery can disrupt ovulation.

  • The most supportive exercise routine is one you can sustain, fuel and recover from.

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Why Ovulation Matters: From Fertility to Lifelong Health

Why Ovulation Matters: From Fertility to Lifelong Health

~2 minute read

If you're trying to conceive, ovulation is essential. Without ovulation, natural pregnancy cannot occur. It's no surprise that many women only start thinking about ovulation when they're trying for a baby.

But that's only part of the story.

Whether you're trying to conceive, simply living with a monthly cycle that sometimes feels more like an inconvenience than a blessing, or navigating perimenopause and looking for ways to support your long-term health, ovulation remains an important part of your biology.

Ovulation isn't only about getting pregnant. Research has shown that it matters for fertility, progesterone production and bone health, while large population studies have associated a longer reproductive lifespan with lower risks of cardiovascular disease, dementia and better long-term health outcomes. Researchers are now investigating the biological mechanisms behind these associations.

In this article, we'll look at what science already knows, what researchers are still exploring, and where exercise—and the Aviva Method—fit into the picture.

Key Takeaways

  • Ovulation is essential for natural conception.

  • When it comes to ovulation, more isn't always better. Research suggests that moderate exercise may support healthy ovulatory function, while excessive training—particularly when combined with inadequate energy intake—can interfere with normal ovulation in some women.

  • The Aviva Method is a moderate-intensity movement programme designed specifically for women's reproductive and pelvic health. That's why many women choose to practise it throughout different stages of life—from trying to conceive to supporting their reproductive health and navigating perimenopause.

  • Ovulation triggers your body's natural production of progesterone.

  • Healthy ovulatory cycles contribute to normal bone health.

  • Large population studies have associated a longer reproductive lifespan with lower risks of cardiovascular disease, dementia and better long-term health outcomes. Researchers are investigating the biological mechanisms behind these associations.

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Can Exercise Improve Fertility? What Research Says About Movement and Conception
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Can Exercise Improve Fertility? What Research Says About Movement and Conception

When trying to conceive, many women focus on ovulation tracking, hormone testing, supplements, or fertility treatment.

Exercise is often discussed too — but the advice can feel confusing.

Should you exercise more? Less? Does the type of movement matter?

Research suggests that mild-to-moderate exercise may support reproductive health, while very intense training may not always be beneficial.

But one important question is often missed:

Not all exercise is the same.

Different forms of movement train different systems and create different physiological adaptations.

The Aviva Method is different from general exercise because it was specifically developed with reproductive and pelvic health in mind.

So when we ask whether exercise can support fertility, the question is not only whether movement helps — but also what kind of movement may be most supportive.

Quick summary

✓ Mild-to-moderate exercise is generally considered compatible with — and often supportive of — reproductive health
✓ Exercise appears particularly beneficial in women with metabolic dysfunction such as PCOS
✓ Physical activity before IVF may improve pregnancy outcomes
✓ While fertility-specific Aviva studies have not yet been published, moderate exercise research, the method’s reproductive-health design, and decades of instructor and participant experience together provide a meaningful rationale for its use as a complementary practice

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